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Sons of Toxic Mothers

Jun 8, 2023 12:27pm

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

9 min read

Mothers and daughters are often seen as a package deal, however, the Mother-Son relationship has complex dynamics that impact a man into adulthood. If you have been following my blogs, then you are aware that I work closely with women who were raised by critical mothers. Of course, sons are not exempt from the struggle daughters have faced. Read my recent blog post to learn more.

Overcoming the Mother Wound

Apr 24, 2023 10:12am

By Mari Grande

Under BRAINZ, The Mother Wound & Motherhood

8 min read

The journey to break a generational cycle isn’t easy, yet it is necessary and rewarding. If you have been following my blogs and articles, then you are surely no stranger to this topic. I talk a lot about identifying how the Mother Wound manifests in certain relationships– such as with a lover, friend, or the inner self– although we have yet to address how to move through the world as a mother.

After dealing with our own absent, attacking, or overbearing mother, we are sure to deal with some afte…

The Power of Friendships Between Women

Feb 27, 2023 05:23pm

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

9 min read

Throughout history, women have come together in support of other women. This would bring generations together around a similar and difficult shared experience, for instance, childbirth, child-rearing, relationship celebrations and challenges, life passages, and grievances. Now, our lives are so much more separated. Making it crucial to find a female friend you can connect with. We make each other stronger.
Of course, this relationship is impacted, like all others, by our first relationship: the …

Romantic Relationships & Your Mother Experience

Feb 2, 2023 04:50pm

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

6 min read

Have you heard the expression, “I married my mother” (or father). Well, that actually makes a lot of sense when you think about it through an attachment lens. You see, our first relationships have the greatest impact and influence, consciously and unconsciously, on how we perceive the world and those in it. This is natural, healthy, and expected. However, if there were aspects of your early relationships you do not want to bring forward into your adult life, you may find my recent blog post use…

New Year, New Critical Loop

Jan 6, 2023 11:01am

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

7 min read

Every year when the ball drops, revelers around the nation hear the song “Auld Lang Syne” spread the message of leaving behind things we no longer want in the old year so we can bring our dreams into the new year. Often these gestures lead to a sense of disappointment, helplessness, and failure. The exact opposite of the intended resolution!
Read my recent blog post to learn more.

What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Mother Experience

Dec 20, 2022 10:49am

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

9 min read

In life, we may find ourselves interacting with others in particular patterns. The awareness of these patterns is more common now than ever, as we have better language and understanding that explains why and how these attachments occur. Read my recent blog post to learn more.

Making Traditions Your Own

Dec 5, 2022 08:57am

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

5 min read

As the holidays approach and family gatherings are planned, it’s natural to become aware of the traditions held by our family of origin. Whether these are religious ceremonies, meal rituals, or guidelines for gathering, there are many ways that we either preserve or discontinue the passing of customs. While some traditions offer joy and connection, some become a source of confusion or even contention as we reach adulthood. As we evolve from children, to adolescents, to adults, we have the power …

'Tis The Season: Setting Boundaries Around The Holidays

Nov 18, 2022 08:42am

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

5 min read

‘Tis the season for special traditions, twinkling lights, and navigating family dynamics. Whether you're heading home for the holidays, or simply staying in town, the most wonderful time of the year can become the most stressful time of the year when personalities and preferences collide. By intentionally setting boundaries ahead of time, we can lessen the impact of challenging family dynamics over the holiday season. Read my recent blog post to learn more.

Anger Isn’t A Bad Word: Healing the Hurt of the Mother Wound the Mother Wound

Nov 9, 2022 08:33am

By Mari Grande

Under The Mother Wound, Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers & BRAINZ

6 min read

Anger. This heavy word carries with it a burdensome load of emotions, especially for those who experienced a Mother Wound. For many in this situation, they were taught that anger is wrong to feel and “bad” to express. As a result, the complexity of emotions beneath the anger is left unattended. When the layers of anger are peeled back, many discover a well of hurt that drives their thoughts, actions, and emotional patterns. In order to heal, the anger needs to be recognized, shared and befriende…

Attachment Styles And The Intrapersonal Experience

Oct 25, 2022 11:31am

By Mari Grande

Under BRAINZ

7 min read

If you spend any time on social media, you’ve likely heard about Attachment Styles. This hot topic is widely discussed by social media therapists, coaches, and wellness enthusiasts. When used only as a tool to discuss interpersonal relationships, we miss the opportunity to dig deeper into the ways we attach intrapersonally, to ourselves. We all have a relationship with ourselves—some more conscious of it than others. By understanding your Attachment Style, you open the door to understanding and …

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BRAINZ

Sons of Toxic Mothers

Overcoming the Mother Wound

The Power of Friendships Between Women

Romantic Relationships & Your Mother Experience

New Year, New Critical Loop

What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Mother Experience

Making Traditions Your Own

'Tis The Season: Setting Boundaries Around The Holidays

Anger Isn’t A Bad Word: Healing the Hurt of the Mother Wound the Mother Wound

Attachment Styles And The Intrapersonal Experience

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